Not all of us have a Cinderella type of love story (love at first sight, get married and live happily ever after types of story). Trust me, life is not as simple as that. A friend of mine had his own story. He is 100% ready for commitment as full time lover but what he get at the end of day is only serial episodes of frustration in his relationship. As wise man says, "You can never get all what you want" and i always believe that. Luckily he still believe in love in still searching for it.
Another friend of mine had different story. She got married to somebody that she "thought" that she knew very well , had a very cute little daughter and left by her husband recently because her husband not sure what he want in his life. Sound ridiculous right? She still feels very sad as his daughter will grew up without father and she not sure how to explain to her daughter when she asked about her father. She still partly believe in love. Good for her.
Wait, there another sad love story. Another friend of mine. She had 3 boys after 5 years of marriage. Looks older then her age. Her face tells everything. She don't ever have to speak. She had suffered a lot from her marriage. She has been totally abandoned by her husband. She rising her kids by her own despite having a husband. The only reason is because her mother in-law does not like her and at the same time, her mother in-law has already arranged somebody for her husband. She try to stand still in her marriage because of her kids. Do you think she she still believe in love? hurm......(thinking).......
3 comments:
Happydoc,I love this entry.Can I just add a little bit here?
Love changes a woman.......
It really hurts when someone who once promised the world to you, turn against you, and backstab you with the most hurtful words imaginable.
A word can kill.A sentence can scars you for life.
Entah lah,it has been years since my marriage crumbled macam biskot lemau but I masih tak jumpa ubatnya lagi.Ada ke ubat to heal a broken heart happydoc?
"Love is born of faith,
Lives on hope,
And dies of charity."
ahh...the ever sensitive topic finally broached by happy doc. ;) don't you think the saying above is true though? i've seen so many 'charity' cases crash and burn. the heart should be set in brick and mortar about the person you're marrying, not be filled with doubt.
however, faith should not be lost.it is better to have loved and lost, rather than not having loved at all. what doesn't kill us can only make us stronger.God works in mysterious ways. we may not get what we want, but we will definitely get what we need.. InsyaAllah. :)
p/s: i'd better stop my comment before it becomes a blog pulak in your blog. LOL. babbling is a permanent habit of mine. sigh. ta dear!!
Hi Dewi,
Let time heal your broken heart, u will feel better when you found somebody else. Meanwhile, stay strong!
Ida,
Your are 110% correct and a very very good thought. Thanks for sharing it : )
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